Yesterday, I had one of those conversations with someone that leaves you richer for having had it.
Maurice and his fiancee Elaine from Velvetine Studios were filming the wedding I was photographing, and we had a chance to chat over dinner. Our meandering conversation never strayed far from our shared philosophy of recording a wedding. A philosophy that is best captured in a single word: “Don’t!”
Let me explain.
While the bride was getting ready, I saw that a wonderful photograph was possible, involving a reflection in the mirror on a wardrobe door. I got quite excited, and set myself to capture it – only for one of the bridesmaids to swing the door open so the bride could see herself. Amazing shot – gone.
Elaine asked whether I wasn’t tempted to intervene; tell the girls we’d get a great shot if they positioned the door right.
I said I wasn’t. That would have meant interfering with the day. The bridesmaid opened the door – that’s what happened. It might have ruined the photograph, but that’s less important than letting people get on with it. I’m there to record what happens, not direct it. Hence: “Don’t” when it comes to moving things. What happens, happens – that’s what a documentary photographer should photograph.
Maurice and Elaine video weddings with a similar philosophy. They film documentaries, they record life.
Unsurprisingly, it is very easy for me to work alongside them. On Friday, we moved around each other easily and elegantly, despite the three of us working in the same space. A shared philosophy leads to mutual respect for the other’s needs. Everyone wins – especially the couple getting married.
Maurice at work at the Prince of Peace church in Fossa, Co. Kerry ... You'll have to look hard to see him. (c) Roger Overall 2010
