Jasmine Star Is A Threat To Our Way Of Life – Part 1
If that headline doesn’t pique your interest, you may need to check your pulse.
The same applies if you don’t know who Jasmine Star is – especially if you photograph weddings for a living. Honestly, where have you been?
In all seriousness, if you are a middle-aged male wedding photographer, Jasmine Star represents a huge threat to your business. She is the thin end of a wedge that is going to be driven right between you and your customer base. She is going to make it harder for us to make a living. Some of us are going to find it impossible.
And that is a good thing.
A very good thing indeed.
The issue is customer identification.
Brides are the driving force in the purchasing decisions that accompany a wedding. We know that. Your average bride is going to be in the 20- to 35-year-old age bracket. Which makes them roughly a decade younger than someone like me at best; at worst two decades younger. Being truthful, that kind of age gap means that I have very little in common with most brides when it comes to most aspects of their wedding. For instance, I don’t get shoes. For me, they are functional. For many brides, they are religion. As for the dress…
Imagine, then, a female wedding photographer who is in the same age group as most brides. She will naturally “get” brides. They will be equals in so many respects. They will most likely be able to talk sensibly, passionately and at length about shoes with brides. They will connect in a way male, middle-aged wedding photographers cannot.
There’s more. Young female wedding photographers will, if they are photographing from their heart rather than copying others, be shooting work that connects strongly with their age group. They will be able to articulate the kind of photography that will have an innate, automatic appeal to brides. They have an in-built understanding of their market.
Wedding photography used to be an almost exclusive male preserve. That has been changing for a good while, but now there is a tidal wave on its way and I’m not sure middle-aged male wedding photographers in general can see it coming.
Just ask yourself this. If you were a bride, who would you more easily book: a photographer who is one of your peers and understands you instinctively, or someone who could talk golf with your dad?
In part 2, we’ll look at why this is a good thing and what us middle-aged fat-bellies can do about this.



